If you know want women really want when it comes to dating you are ahead of the pack. Virtually all women want to date real men, not boys. Even if the definition of a real man may vary, there are quite a few things that virtually all women expect from real men.
Women expect real men to make fast decisions. That’s arguably the most important way you can impress your date. More exactly, the opposite is true, if you can’t make up your mind, women will classify you as an indecisive wimp. And few women like to date boys who don’t know what they want. This means that you must be able to make quick decisions, especially about trivial things, such as selecting what table to sit at in a restaurant. Never ever say something like, “I don’t know, where do you want to sit.” Being decisive shows that you are confident and in charge of your life. Just don’t over do it, you may look like a control freak. If your date prefers to sit somewhere else, just accept it with good grace.
If you are handsome, well dressed, rich and so on is less important. You just need to show that you are in control of your life. Make sure that your clothes are reasonable, you have got a haircut in the last couple of weeks, your credit card debts is not out control etc. You don’t need to be a handsome millionaire to attract women but real men are expected to be in charge of their life. This includes being in charge of your emotions, no tantrums. Children can’t control their emotions, real men on the other hand are supposed to be able to handle setbacks.
Despite our equal opportunities society, the rules of dating have not changed much. Women still expect men to take the first step, and they expect real men to know this. So be prepared to take the initiative, not only at the first encounter but all the way to the goal line. This is not fair but that is simply how dating works, so get just to it. Also, real men never beg for sex, if the girl says no, accept it with good grace. The absolutely worst mistake you can make is to start asking why not or start begging, that’s what boys do. This is seldom an issue if you pay attention to how your date reacts when you take the next step, women generally signal clearly if they want you to go further or not. You just need to pay attention to these signals. And yes, if she wants you to continue to the next level, you have to continue to the next level. Failing to do that is only something shy boys would do, not real men. Knowing what women really want is not that hard, you just need to practice.